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Friday, 30 October 2015

9jaflave FFT - What Do You Want To Be Remembered For?

What do you want to be remembered for? A question worth pondering. My country's President, Muhammadu Buhari recently said that he wants to be remembered for fighting corruption to a standstill. A tough call I must say, especially with the depth of corruption in our nation, but I also believe it is achievable. 'A man's values will always reflect what he wants his legacy to be.'

So what do you want to be remembered for? We are not all called to great assignments, the little things we do daily can become our own legacies. In our families, in our marriages, in the workplace and as an entrepreneur, our lives can become great models for the next generation to build on.

What do you want to be remembered for? It is not about changing the whole world but about making a difference wherever you are. It is not about being in the limelight, but about silently impacting the world around you. ' A simple word of encouragement can impact a generation'. What do you want to be remembered for? Think about it.

Ufuoma Fijab

President Buhari Wants To Be Remembered For Fighting Corruption To A Standstill

Nigerian President, Muhammadu Buhari, who is currently in India attending the 3rd Summit of the India-Africa Forum has reiterated his commitment to the fight against corruption in the country.

While responding to questions during a press conference in India, President Buhari opened up on what he will want to be remembered for. Read below:

He said "If we survive it, I want to be remembered that Nigerians found out that I was genuine, I was a real patriot . Not only that I fought the civil war, I also fought corruption to a standstill." 


Sunday, 25 October 2015

9jaflave Soliloquy - A New Day To Start All Over Again


So here comes another week with fresh opportunities, ideas and its own challenges, the year also gradually coming to an end. You look back and still feel empty, no achievements, no accomplishments and nothing worth celebrating.

You may have started and it did not work out, you may have given your best shot and still nothing to show for it. You still seem to be at a crossroad in your life, with no clue of how and where to start from. It's a new day and new opportunities abound and new ideas are born.

'What lies behind us and what lies ahead of us isn't as important as what lies within us.' Treasures abound in us, it only takes believing in yourself and choosing to never give up. Life will beat you hard, challenges will test your limits, your dreams will look like they can't be realized. It's a new day and new doors are open.

You are alive and have your sanity intact. Today presents you with another opportunity to start again. A new day is here to try again, to create again, to rise again and to believe again.

Just take a deep breath and start all over again. It's a new day and it definitely has pleasant things for you. Do have a great week ahead and stay inspired@9jaflave. Cheers!!!!!!

Ufuoma Fijab


Thursday, 22 October 2015

9jaflave Soliloquy - One Step Closer To Your Dreams

Indeed those dreams of yours still seem so far away, you wonder when you will get there, you look ahead and the future still looks so bleak. Keep Moving!!!! You are one step closer.

Challenges stare you in the face daily, the pressure is killing your soul, you are overwhelmed and want to give it all up. Keep Moving!!!! You are one step closer.

Achieving your dreams is not a day's job, neither is success an overnight miracle. You have to work, you have to believe, you have to persevere, you have to be consistent. 

Every step taken, every time spent pondering,every work done to accomplish, every moment spent believing in that dream of yours, only takes you one step closer to it becoming a reality. Truly you may not be there yet, but you are one step closer than you were yesterday. Cheers!!!!

Ufuoma Fijab


Monday, 19 October 2015

Thoughts From A Young South African Entrepreneur

Karidas Tshintsholo is the co-founder of Push Ismokol Clothing, a textile company that designs, manufactures and markets garments such as t-shirts, caps, trousers and sweaters. 

The company was started in 2011 when he partnered with a friend who loved to design clothes. The 20 year old entrepreneur says, "Patience and perseverance is what makes most entrepreneurs.”
His advice to upcoming entrepreneurs is to have patience when it comes to growing their ventures and reaching their dreams. 

His Words :“Even though in the short term things might look like they’re not coming together, as long as you have that long-term vision of where you want to go, you are on track to getting there. If you don’t know where you want to go, you can’t get there. So have a clear picture of where you want to be, and build towards getting there.”

Source - howwemadeitinafrica

Sunday, 18 October 2015

9jaflave Soliloquy - Try Again And Again Till It Works


Chasing your dreams, pursuing your vision and fulfilling purpose is a journey we begin with great anticipation and expectation. We are fired up and full of faith and desire quick results. But what happens when the challenges of life cross your path.

There are challenges that will push you beyond your limits, challenges that would question why you started on this journey. You will fall many times, you will tested severally. Your integrity will be questioned, your faith in your vision will be tried. You may feel overwhelmed at some point, you may just want to give it all up. Stop for a moment.......

Failing only means you are learning new ways to make it right. Giving up now is no option. Your dream is worth rising up from that fall over and over again, till you get it right. If you fail, try again and again till it works. Are you willing right now to try again? Have a blessed week ahead and stay inspired @9jaflave.

Ufuoma Fijab


Thursday, 15 October 2015

Jamaican Marlon James Wins 2015 Man Booker Prize

Jamaican author Marlon James has won the 2015 Man Booker Prize for his novel, 'A Brief History of Seven Killings.' The 680 page epic was  inspired by the attempted assassination of Bob Marley in the 1970s. The judges described ‘A Brief History of Seven Killings’ as an extraordinary book, voting it the winner in a unanimous decision.

James was announced as the winner of the £50,000 prize in London on Tuesday, and is the first Jamaican author to win the Man Booker Prize. His first novel, John Crow’s Devil, was rejected 78 times by publishers, before it was eventually published in 2005. 

"I'm not an easy writer to like and I remember the lengths I went to just to get my voice heard," the Jamaican author said after accepting the award at London's Guildhall."Almost exactly 10 years ago, I had given up my writing. I had written a novel and deleted it and destroyed it." Then he met author Kaylie Jones who, after hearing about his discarded manuscript, insisted on reading it. After much searching, he unearthed a version of the novel "on an old laptop in an Outlook Express outbox" and Jones had it published.

"I am eternally grateful to her," James said. I sort of gave up on writing and the idea that people wanted to hear these stories. It is kind of affirming, especially because this is the riskiest novel I've ever written and not just in terms of subject matter but in terms of form. The 44-year-old author was presented with his prize by the Duchess of Cornwall.

Tuesday, 13 October 2015

9jaflave Soliloquy - I Want To Inspire You


When you are inspired, ideas are born, thoughts generate solutions,courage enters your heart, passion is revived and life takes on a new meaning. When you are inspired, you find hope from other people's success stories, you look boldly at your future and cast a new vision for your life. When you are inspired, faith is rekindled and something within you knows that you will make it.

I want to inspire people with my words and my voice. I want to share with you short inspiring messages, my thoughts, stories of success, stories of victory and things that would give you many reasons not to give up on life. I want to share things with you that will give you many reasons to believe in yourself, in your dreams and in your life's vision. Inspiration can birth ideas, dreams, vision, passion and hope. Where and how can you find that inspiration?

This is why I blog @9jaflave. To inspire you with thoughts, words, articles, stories, images and people that will motivate, challenge, build and encourage you. This is the reason I blog, To enable you share your story with the world, to enable you inspire others to believe. @9jaflave. It is all about Inspiration. Stay Inspired @9jaflave. Cheers!!!!

Ufuoma Fijab

Monday, 12 October 2015

9jaflave Soliloquy - Quit Giving Excuses, Pursue Your Dreams


Procrastination they say is the greatest thief of time, I will, I will and yet you do nothing. Time waits for no one and it quickly slips away. Time remains one of your most valuable resources here on earth, so choose to use it wisely.

Quit making excuses for your weaknesses, quit giving many reasons why you can't make it happen and refuse to be intimidated other people's success. Your dreams and aspirations will remain just dreams until acted upon.

The time is now and the moment is now. You lose a lot of time while you sit making excuses. If then you truly believe in your dreams, go ahead and pursue those dreams. Cheers!!! Stay inspired @9jaflave

Ufuoma Fijab

Sunday, 11 October 2015

9jaflave Soliloquy - Find Courage and Pursue Your Dreams


One of my favourite quotes from Nelson Mandela is "I learned that courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear." 

To triumph over your fears is the beginning of  believing in yourself.  To believe in yourself is the beginning of  unveiling the masterpiece that you are. To dream is the beginning of unlocking the treasures within you. To be courageous is the beginning of breaking barriers and doing that which seemed impossible.

You and I have dreams. You and I have great visions. You and I have great potentials locked up within us. But we need courage to see them become a reality. We all have dreams and truly all our dreams can come to pass, If and only if we are willing to be courageous enough to pursue them.

You will feel afraid many times, but you must learn to conquer those fears and make things happen. Your dreams can come to pass, your vision can see the light of day, but if and only if you are willing to find the courage to go for it. Stay inspired @9jaflave

Ufuoma Fijab

Comedienne Lepacious Bose On Her Inspiring Weight Loss Journey

Nigerian female comedienne, Lepacious Bose recently shared a before/recent picture of herself revealing her incredible weight loss. Some people on seeing how much weight she lost quickly said she had surgery. But she has revealed that it was a journey she began 2 years ago after her teenage nephew, Simi sounded a wake-up call. Her will, courage, patience and determination is eventually paying off.

Her words: These days I just love taking pictures, it’s amazing how far I have come from acting like I love the camera, and actually loving it. The journey of a thousand miles starts with one step, make a choice, start today, a little walk, a little exercise, a conscious healthier eating habit….it all comes together slowly but surely, you too can loose that weight, let’s enjoy this journey together. Almost 2yrs on this journey and I can’t stop smiling. #lovinglife#.

About 3 years ago, while on holiday in Namibia with my brother's family, I was taking an afternoon nap, Simi, my nephew came in and touched me gently, almost like a doctor would do. He touched my forehead and asked softly, aunty Bos (not aunty Bose lol) are you OK? I said yes, he said are you sure and I gave him the what do you mean look, still sleepy. Then he said what jumped into my brain like a bomb explosion. He said,  "You were breathing funny in your sleep, I got scared, thought you heart was going to stop, I got scared, that is why I came to check if you are alright."

In a very humble voice I told him I was fine, then I sat up, thought about it, his dad (my brother) had always hated me being big, we fought constantly about it, that I was sure he hated me, now I know better, lol. He loved me too much to watch me let myself go like I was doing, but I didn’t get it.

Saturday, 10 October 2015

You Can Be Somebody Great - Korede Bello

One of Nigeria's young and talented musicians, Korede Bello, says his latest song, 'Somebody Great', featuring Asa, is  a song he wrote, to make people visualise success in their minds and then work hard to achieve it. “You can be somebody great from nobody to somebody, you can be anything you want to be: have love for God, love for people, one love."

The song titled 'Somebody Great' was written to inspire greatness in others he says, " Before you can be somebody great, you need to first see it in your mind and you need to prophesy it to yourself, you need to say it to yourself.” 

The 19-year-old also believes that musicians have the power to turn lives around for the better. “I guess those are one of the privileges of being a musician because you can put things out there in a melodic form that can change people’s lives forever,” he said. 

Monday, 5 October 2015

9jaflave Soliloquy - What Will Your Future Self Thank You For?

What are you willing to do today, that when you eventually look back in the future, you will be glad you did it. There are decisions and choices to be made, but the will and courage to do is what sets you apart.

What steps are you willing to take? What are those things that have to give way? What path will you choose to walk? There are commitments to be made, but the passion and tenacity is what will produce results.

Look ahead and think, what will your future self thank you for? Will he/she be glad that you made those choices, commitments and decisions?

Make up your mind today to do something that tomorrow, you will be glad you did. Cheers and have a great week ahead. Stay inspired @ 9jaflave

Ufuoma Fijab


Sunday, 4 October 2015

New Documentary Film Chronicles The Life Of Pakistani Teenager Malala Yousafzai

Pakistani teenager Malala Yousafzai is a leading advocate for children's rights and the youngest-ever Nobel Peace Prize Laureate. The world turned its attention on her after she was shot by the Taliban for speaking out on girl's education. She emerged stronger from that season of her life and continues to be a voice and inspiration around the world.

"He Named Me Malala' is a 2015 American documentary film about her life. Mixing animation, family photos, interviews, and powerful video footage of Malala's life in Pakistan before and after the terrorizing reign of the Taliban, director Davis Guggenheim explores the extraordinary, almost seemingly preordained life of the 18-year-old education advocate. 

The documentary delves into the unbreakable bond she shares with her influential former school teacher/activist father, Ziauddin Yousafzai, and how they, along with the rest of their family, adjust to their new found fame and life in Birmingham, England

Saturday, 3 October 2015

9jaflave Soliloquy - When Oprah Winfrey Meets Mother Theresa

What happens when a media mogul cum Philanthropist meets a nun giving hope to the poorest of the poor in faraway India?

What happens when a woman who has interviewed some of the world's  most powerful and influential people, meets a simple nun whose daily interaction is with the poor, hopeless and broken?

What happens when two women choose to serve the world with their uniqueness and bring light and life to many broken lives?

What happens when Oprah Winfrey meets Mother Theresa? You get a clear mix of the heartbeat and passion of motherhood.

When Oprah meets Mother Theresa, hope comes alive and dreams are reborn. One woman gave herself and served the poor till her death, the other woman is still giving herself and sharing her wealth with the world.

Mother Theresa said: " If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one", and Oprah says,
"What material success does is provide you with the ability to concentrate on other things that really matter. And that is being able to make a difference, not only in your own life, but in other people's lives."

When Oprah meets Mother Theresa, motherhood breaks boundaries, it goes beyond being a mother to your biological children, it becomes mothering from the heart and serving the world with who you truly are.

When Oprah meets Mother Theresa you get a clear mix of passion and love in abundance to shape, lift, nurture and build other lives.

So when you think of Oprah Winfrey and Mother Theresa, think of motherhood beyond boundaries, think of women who chose to impact the lives of children in search of love and hope, think of being a mother who will influence and shape the lives of the next generation positively, leaving footprints in the hearts of many forever.

Ufuoma Fijab.

Thursday, 1 October 2015

Be Revolutionary And Dream Big - South African Female Entrepreneur

Maite Makgoba is the South African Female entrepreneur behind Momppy Mpoppy, a princess doll made and suited for young African girls. She received the idea while shopping for a doll for her niece. Makgoba believes this is Africa's moment and that opportunities abound to grow revolutionary businesses. Read her thoughts below:

“I mean, right now we are sitting in a position where the continent is ours. It is up to us to shape it, to direct where we want it to go. So wherever the direction, it has to be for the better of this continent.”

She attributes some of her company’s success to dreaming “crazy big” and advises other entrepreneurs to do the same. At the beginning of this year I said to my team that we are going to end up in Forbes Magazine. And we did it. “You have to think really big because that is how you challenge yourself. The bigger the dream, the more drive you put behind it.”

9jaflave FFT - Live Your Life To Express Not Impress


Life is more than the accolades, it is more about living with purpose and living for a cause. It is more than living to impress others, it is more about living out our full potentials and impacting the world with who we are.

What will the world remember you for? Will the world remember that you were here? Think about it.

Happy Independence Day Nigeria


Happy Independence day!!!! Nigeria is 55 today and I say it can only get better for this great nation. I celebrate with my fellow countrymen today, I say to every citizen, keep hope alive and be the change you want to see in this nation.

It has been a long walk, but I believe we will get there. I really hope with this new set of leadership, change will truly come. Happy Independence day and God bless Nigeria. Here's a poem a wrote last year, " The Nigeria of my dreams",  which I am sharing again.And this is the Nigeria of my dreams......

A country where different people with diverse cultures live together in harmony
A country where peace reigns in every nook and cranny
A country where maternal mortality will become history
A country where quality healthcare is available for all classes of people
A country where education of children will be a burning passion and priority
A country where bad roads and poor infrastructure will be a thing of the past
A country where youths will not have to wait endlessly for gainful employment
A country where constant electricity will become a normal thing
A country where leaders will lead by example and character
A country where the youth will have true role models to look up to
A country where evil and wickedness will stop prevailing
A country where our strength will be seen in our diversity
A country where hard-work and true values will be celebrated
A country where young people can dream and find true purpose
A country where everyone will love his neighbour as himself
A country where hope is rekindled and faith our anchor
A country where the next generation will have inspiring life lessons to draw from
A country where I am secure and know that it can only get better
A country I want to be proud of and cherish forever
This is the Nigeria of my dreams

Ufuoma Fijab #Nigeriaofmydreams #keeptheflagflying